1. uncertainty in its own attractiveness
From time to time each of us ceases to feel itself beautiful. We all are the people: we be ill, we get tired, we suffer from the depression. But at such moments it is difficult to remain attractive. But if in woman are understated self-appraisal, state of uncertainty in itself - usually for it. The mass of women they do not undress before the men, they are not occupied by sex even with the light of television set and do not give to examine itself to their second-halfs. This uncertainty is characteristic of girls in the beginning of the relations, when partners are not yet close in the present. But it occurs, that similar thoughts settle in the head in earnest and for a long time. And it is necessary to get rid of them.
2. Fear not to obtain desired
Let us say, girl changes sexual partner. With the previous boyfriend everything was noticeably in the plan of sex, but not there was mutual understanding and heat. But now next this remarkable person, who understands and sensitive. But here which it in the bed? But suddenly it is not so good as that, eks loved? It will suddenly not be reckless nights and orgasms. Suddenly 4 "it is there" too great? I was the witness of that how one my familiar, following such thoughts, generally it forewent the new novel. So it feared disappointment!
3. Past negative experience or all peasants "SVO..."
To women, who survived in the past violence or brutal treatment from the side of man it is complicated to receive strong floor adequately. In the eyes of this woman all without the exception of man are potential despots, capable of causing pain. In such cases the psychologists advise without delay to be turned into the centers of aid or in the particular order to the specialists. Far from each is capable itself of manage a similar problem singly.
4. For the first time, the very same the latter. It pomatrosit and it will throw
They suffer similar paranoia in essence of girl with the rich life experience. Very often it is possible to meet the similar histories of the different women: "with me everything in the order, 4 attractive, that succeeds, independent and generally gift. But men disappear the maximum through the week, the minimum after the first night ". But in what the matter? I will risk to assume that reason precisely in this fear. Indeed, as is known, thought is material.
5. Taboo to the sex to the wedding
Glory to the god (yes tyuey prostyat me the adherents of morals), in our country no longer is urgent the sex only after wedding. But there was the time, when I in earnest thought that my first night with the man takes place precisely after the rite of marriage. Now a similar taboo is urgent perhaps that for the women of the east brought up in the severe traditions. But what to make, if feelings did arise between the eastern beauty and the man from other entirely peace, in which there is no place for similar prohibitions? What to make: to oslushat'sya parental commandments and to go against its culture or to lose that loved? Indeed only strong and present feelings are capable of withstanding this testing.
6. Pregnancy and the generation of the child: entirely not to the sex
Among my familiar almost all families survived a similar crisis. Those, who know about the pregnancy not by hearsay, he visualizes, as everything changes inside and all around. Woman becomes more sensitive, but not always more sensual. On top of that toxicosis, yes plus is the growing stomach. On the whole, all this does not add attractiveness to us in our own eyes. But what to speak about the period after the generation of little-one? Young mom falls from the fatigue and there is no time to the sex simply. Yes even it is possible to lose weight in no way. But if propalo sexual desire and does in no way want husband?
7. Training, not making it possible to begin the sexual games of the first
At the very beginning of relations not that so that the declaration of modesty will be not excess, but simply necessary, so that the man would not think that deals concerning the woman of moderate behavior. But it is subsequently compulsory necessarily to manifest its passion to that loved. Indeed, as the psychologists speak: men greet in the women modesty, but in the bed they want mad sex.
8. Work 24 hours a day, and to the sex not of the minute
As commonplace this did not sound, but to the sex, and to any other occupation they were necessary: force, time, specific attitude and desire. But it means, woman must be, as a minimum, that not get tiredded before lie into the bed with the man. 4 itself survived such here crisis, when not that did not remain to the sex, so that the time, and simply not there would be any forces. So it got tired on the work that it came in the evening home and, falling, here it filled up. Specifically, then I for the first time thought about being discharged, and taking care thus family.
9. Apart to us it is boring, together tightly: the different sexual temperaments
As shows our forum, the noncoincidence of the temperaments of partners - sufficient reason so that the woman would begin to simply fear the offensive of night. Man is very active and requires sex constantly - woman suffers and is shut, but he not can to answer by reciprocity its desire. Man wants sex much less than its female partner - woman comes running to different tricks and methods in order to excite it, but as a result it is occupied samoudovletvoreniyem or lover finds.
10. I will become pregnant or will fall ill?
Sometimes this psychological problem is the result of specific events in the life of woman. When it, forgetting about the precautionary measures, was infected from the man by the diseases of known nature. But it occurs and so that this fear appears it from anywhere and accompanies woman constantly. Either prezervativy, or different preparations it seems cannot save from the unavoidable disease or the pregnancy. As result - taboo for any sexual relations.
