As the women make fall in love !

15 years

This can be not compulsorily 15 years, but also 14, and 17, and 19 - time of youth and the time of the first love. At this age we have the most contradictory and most confused relation to the men. From one side, the lath in the attitude of potential boyfriend is scratched to the skies, with another - the intermittent cloudiness in the brains and the soul, and also the complete absence of experience does not make it possible correctly to judge men, to evaluate their advantages and disadvantages. In the youth us draw, first of all, the picture, appearance, behavior, after which are seen, are devised and come to a conclusion internal qualities - kindness, mind, decency.

Recall, as in you occurred the "selection of aspirants" into 15 years. Most likely, this appeared approximately thus. You dispatch with the best friend along the street, with the parade, with the hair-dos, which you recently made to each other of the houses, which are seemed yourselves such adult, but in reality, entirely still girls, similar to each other and ridiculous. You dispatch and they noted by the view of each masculine sex passing past the representative, and especially those, whose age to 3-5 years exceeded your. Because those, who is younger, youngster, and those, who is older, starpery. And taking into account that girl into 13-17 years - this the most risible essences on the planet, them finger only show - they will be rolled, as soon as sequential young person it rushed by past you, here was heard the explosion of laughter. The phrases, which accompany this explosion, could be similar: "you did see, as he was stretched? Fie, what contrary! Nose by hook! Also to me pank! But it generally does wash? You were pleased to it! See, it turns around! Kha-kha-kha! We run hence!"

Thus it continued until you meets IT. And Pushkin's line "soul awaited... someone" and "time arrived, it fell in love itself" entirely they approached and to you. Most frequently 15- summer girl makes fall in love into the fellow, whom in sight of all, into the dandy or the impudent person, that, who for the different reasons (impudence, a feeling of humor, money of parents) becomes the center of attention. I tested this on itself, when two years of its youth it was ill in the manner that it is more never in its life, by man to five years it is older me. It was the captain Of kVNovskoy command. Once 4 randomly it fell into the company, where they listened to everything, after opening mouth, its joke they laughed loud. And I also laughed loud, and then it came home and it sobbed into the pillow entire night. It used up diaries, sketched its experiences by black India ink on the paper, were spilled and filled up with the thought about it, each day found time in order "randomly" to be missed past the kiosk, in which it usually bought cigarettes, in the hope of seeing it and hearing negligent "regards". It has slightly slanting eyes, slightly reckless view, feverish bloom on the cheeks. But still it was rough and many saws. And it laughed must by me. However, 4 loved it in the manner that it is possible to love only in the youth - madly and forever.

25 years

Age from 20- TI to 30- TI of years with the center into 25 - this is that age itself, when usually and start the main "sud'bonosnye" solutions in the life. In this temporary section, as a rule, we meet that, who - for life or only to its part - becomes our second-half.

In 25 years the woman already has an experience in the relations with the men, she survived encounters and partings, offence and forgiveness, several times her ideas about the men were translated from the feet to the head and vice versa. It came to the conclusion that the dandies are frequently egoists, jokers - by philanderers, amateurs to drink - by the professionals, namely by drunkards, whom not to cure by love and kindness. Now it looks at the men otherwise: it looks, it carefully questions familiar, it fears to get burned, weighs everything "after" and "against", parallels with the past connections are drawn. And if in the youth in the first place the external attractiveness of subject left, then now valuable become the internal peace of man, his attitude toward the dear woman, and, certainly, his material abundance. Indeed it must ensure not only its wife, but also joint children - all this woman at the age around 25- TI constantly holds in the mind.

to the 25- summer girl it is necessary much less time than 17- summer in order to understand: this man by it does not approach. She knows how can end one or other vital collision or another, for example, love into the married man, and several years of its life will try not to expend on the man, who never will throw wife and children. Although even the adult woman sometimes understands this too late.

At this age you be situated in the bloom of your attractiveness, and therefore sufficiently high demands relative to the man, whom you would want to see by your husband, they have completely real chance to crown by success. Briefly, you much want and much you will obtain! Although from the disappointments, certainly, no one is insured.

35 years are older

After 30- TI you become personality with the steady nature, with the constant advantages and disadvantages, habits, needs and prevailing means of life. You cannot be altered, from you you will not blind as of the plasticine, another person, you with difficulty compromise and almost in no way can be adjusted slightly under other people. You - such as there is. And you want so that you would fall in love with such entire the same ideal man, about whom you dreamed into 25 years. In this entire complexity. That man already had long ago been married. In it are obligations, the problems, finally - wife. To it not to you. True, sometimes it dilutes, and then at its disposal the attention of many women is much younger you, ready to become plasticine in his hands. But you other. You is older. And than you is better them?

All women of older than 30- TI can be divided by two categories: on those, who decrease lath relative to men, and those, who this do not make.

Expression "to decrease lath" can be with the ease replaced by "to become terpimeye to the people". You become terpimeye to the men, you much to them can forgive, for example, the gross rotation ("in it on the work so many problems!"), reminding, that you sit in it on the neck ("A indeed I actually obtain 5 times less than it!"), sometimes even treason ("nevertheless it returned to me. 4 wise woman"). Some women actually, with the entire sincerity, much they pardon to their men, loving and considering as the their good people, only tortured by work, by the matters and by life generally. Other ladies suffer and is decreased lath only because they feel: their time departs, not to the legibility already here, let any will be, but his peasant in the house. And the public opinion, "setting" not to kochevryazhit'sya and to take them which remained, plays in this dark deed not last role.

Woman after 35- TI with the high demands relative to men must be ready to remain one. Because in her potential rivals is youth, naivete and freshness of the feelings, which so please themselves men. But also it has chance to obtain that the fact that it deserves. But for this it is necessary constantly to work at itself, being improved spiritually and physically. To preserve ordered figure. To dress elegantly, attractively, with the taste, to use expensive cosmetic. To tend and to cherish, to love itself. To samorealizovyvat'sya to work. But in the free time not to stay house, but to attend holiday measures, to start acquaintances, to live complete life. And to be present, where can prove to be the man of its dream (certainly, completely without having this in the form!) And this man will not let pass this woman! Indeed, furthermore that it is successful, interesting and independent, it still and properly BEAUTIFUL into its 30 with the tail of years. But the beauty of mature woman in the essence is its deeper and more attractive, than the ephemeral charm of youth.

But here 4 I do already hear the excited phrases about why these are we, woman, they must entire life for the peasants try, attractively dress, walk into the salons of beauty, etc? If you please, no one forces no one. Remain in your dear extended jeans and kofte with the pellets and do not wash off varnish from the peeled nails even as the minimum week. No one forces you to change! But then do not dream about the clever and successful men, in whom on the rear seat of elegant auto- lies the last novel Of zyuskinda. Because you, with your rich internal peace, unfortunately, already accurately never will fall into the zone of their attention.

Thus, in the youth we make fall in love into the picture, in the youth - into the nature, and in the maturity - into that man, who is actually worthy us. Or we remain some. And we continue to live further. In the expectation of love...